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Still Overscheduled

September 27th, 2011 at 04:55 pm

Lots of time pressure at school today, and I still feel like I'm constantly swimming upstream. But we had a lovely lovely (did I mention lovely?) evening hike at a nearby nature center. DD goes to a summer camp there, it's close to our house, and her favorite teacher does guided evening hikes. We climbed a 60-foot tower overlooking Lake Michigan, looked a some crazy wild mushrooms, watched red squirrels detach pine cones from a tree, and really enjoyed ourselves. I especially enjoyed watching my DH catch a bullfrog in a net.

Except for the "pennies for libraries" project at DD's school, I only spent on coffee.

But running to make everything happen today.

Paulette: I guess my hike counts as exercise?

Food, Food, Food

September 26th, 2011 at 04:33 am

Reading over today's posts, it seems we're all thinking about and talking about food. So yep, me too. It poured all day, and I made what was reputed to be "The World's Best Pot Roast" from an article in Cooks Illustrated. Not having eaten every pot roast recipe ever devised, I'm not sure I could swear to that, but it was pretty darn good.
Besides making and eating pot roast, I went to church, graded papers and did some lesson plans. I spent 15 minutes trying to think about how I could go to a Bob Dylan/ Mark Knopfler concert in London in November before deeply sighing and giving up. If I find $1000 on the sidewalk tomorrow, I'll send you all a postcard from there.

Grading Away

September 24th, 2011 at 04:59 am

I spent half the morning at the dentist where they replaced an old filling, redrilled it, and gave me a new one. Unfortunately for me, the dentist had a heckuva time getting the separating band off once she filled the tooth. After 15 minutes of hard pulling, she had to extract some of the new filling to get the band off, then redrill a bit more and refill. I was not amused. I came home looking like I'd been through the wars, took three ibuprofen and went to bed for a couple hours.

I got up after noon, couldn't open my mouth much and started grading papers and making chili. That lasted until DD came home from school. She'd had an upsetting day, so we relaxed, read Roald Dahl and C.S. Lewis, and hung out.

Total spending was $135 out-of-pocket money for the dentist and another $18 for an evening family hike next week. Much more grading to do.

The Good, the Bad, and the Veggies

September 22nd, 2011 at 06:09 pm

Yesterday was certainly a mixed bag. Because I was so frazzled the day before, I had no time to bring a lunch with me. I hate to spend $$$ on lunch, and I'm always tempted by caloric delights after teaching three classes. But there's a new stir-fry option at the union food court, and I ordered one without rice or a drink to save cash. Happily for me, a former student was behind the counter, greeted me warmly (she must've forgotten my critique of her report), and asked if I wanted free extra vegetables since I was passing on the rice. Yes! More broccoli, fewer carbs, I couldn't be happier.

But again I had too many mandatory errands on the way home, arrived home just in time to gulp a cup of instant coffee, and pack up DD to head to my evening class. I ran into two former students, both of whom had recently been laid off. The economy seems to be haunting everyone around here.

My evening class went well enough, but I was so bedraggled when I got home, I stretched out on the bed for a few minutes and woke up 45 minutes later.

Today looks better: online class updated and off to a late birthday lunch with a friend.

No cash outlay yesterday except for the lunch.

Frazzling

September 21st, 2011 at 03:45 am

I need to remind myself that I can't accomplish the things I got done in the summer during the school year. My online class demands a lot of time, and although I'm home, I'm not free to do laundry, cook a big meal, make soup stock, go to the grocery store, the bank, and do other errands. That's what I tried to do today, and it didn't work.

I have two new preps this semester, and I'm swimming hard against the current. Hmm-- I guess I need to figure out what reasonable expectations would be.

But I did get some things done, and if I can finish my prep for tomorrow's face-to-face classes, perhaps I can get some rest and feel better tomorrow!

Paulette--I did get a walk in today!

You've never heard of a dictionary?

September 20th, 2011 at 04:21 am

Sorry to complain about students already--but I had several today that complained because there were words they didn't know in a story I assigned. I got a big laugh with my line, "Do you know the word "dictionary"?"--but I really shouldn't be that sarcastic.

Other than my caustic comments, it was a quiet enough day. Our local upscale grocer is having daily specials on things folks buy a lot. DD has been drinking smoothies for breakfast so I bought some 19ct/lb bananas. Such excitement!

Thinking Cheap Thoughts

September 17th, 2011 at 08:05 pm

DH is again hearing rumblings at work about layoffs. Just what we don't need. But anxiety like that always spurs me into action. I made a big pot of chili, headed to CVS with my coupons and extra bucks, and picked up a pork roast on sale on the way home.

Yesterday I sold a book too--so that will go into the Paypal account where I have "almost" enough for a single mortgage payment.

We were planning on Chinese food out tonight since I worked through my birthday celebration and we are without babysitter. But DD is complaining of mouth/cheek pain so we might just stay home. Bleah.

I'm showing Mamet's "Glengarry Glen Ross" in my class next week so I watched it again last night. How bleak--and what a good lesson it is on resisting sales!

BloodBath and Beyond

September 16th, 2011 at 07:34 pm

Sorry for the gory title; ever since I saw "The Simpsons" episode retitling Bed,Bath, and Beyond; I can't help thinking of it that way.

I dropped a quick $40 at the Bloodbath today. My increasingly dramatic DD has tremendous hair snarls despite the marvels of modern conditioner, so I bought her a satin pillowcase just like my mom had in the 1970s. Let's hope it helps with the back-of-the-head snarl which is more like a tumbleweed than hair.

Also purchased were more VacuVin corks,Britta water filters, and some of those socks with aloe and lotion for part of a birthday gift.

Our local BB and B is a strange place. They seem to be always hiring, even in this market, and their employees are incredibly chirpy.

Cross Your Fingers

September 16th, 2011 at 04:52 am

Our university has converted their payroll system in the last few months to one that is supposed to make everything smooth and wonderful. However, the summer payroll didn't go at all well, and some people didn't get paid until September. Special loans had to be made available; tempers were very frayed; it was ugly.

I have a more complex salary than usual this term because I'm "loaned" out to another college within the university and because this is the first pay period after my promotion. Both my regular department and the others are scrambling hard to try to figure it all out, but I think my odds are less than 50/50 that I'll get paid the right amount on time. I spent over an hour on the phone with various payroll people today as they tried to sort it all out.

We could certainly use the infusion of cash, and we're all hoping for the best in a couple of weeks. Cross your fingers until then.

Smoke Gets in Your Eyes

September 14th, 2011 at 03:49 am

and up your nose, and in your lungs... Apparently a forest fire over 500 miles away from us has blown into southeastern Wisconsin. It's been hazy and smoky all day, and both DD and I are sneezing and coughing like we've been snorting ragweed. I'd like it to stop right now. The weather folks said to close up the house and turn on the fan, but I think that's made it worse. Not sure quite what the best course of action might be.

I Know Books are Expensive but...

September 13th, 2011 at 06:05 pm

I'm having a spat with an online student this morning.
Although school has been in session over a week, she hasn't yet received her textbook. I expect that sort of thing to happen in the first week, but books are available at the bookstore (expensive) and there's a reserve copy at the university library.

This is a busy student with several jobs, and she is in a snit because I will not scan the second chapter of the textbook and send it to her. I often scan the first chapters of books and make them available to those who haven't yet received their books. As we here know, I'm all about saving money, and I understand that Amazon and half.com are frequently cheaper and take some time. But copyright laws and fair use guidelines prohibit copying too much information.

She tells me she doesn't have enough time to go to the library (really?), and her tone has become increasingly terse with me. I've offered to set her up with other students who may be able to loan her the text, but to no avail.

So I'm ticked off. I wish everything was free, but textbook writers need to be paid too. And students need to take responsibility.

Still Sorting the Semester

September 13th, 2011 at 04:17 am

It's just Week 2 of the term, and I can see that we're going to have to pare things down on weeknights. After teaching three classes, I'm beat--and Wednesdays are worse with the evening class tacked on.

But my classes today went very well--and I even overheard two students talking as they walked out about what a great class it was. It's a nice thing to hear as I spent hours last night prepping for that class.

Tomorrow I need to devote ll my attention to my online class, break for a little lunch and shopping, then hit it again.

We've started a new thing with our DD in the morning. We've set out lawn chairs on the driveway and sit and chat for five or so minutes before the bus arrives. It's been nice time and we're hoping to continue as long as we can.

No real money news--the only thing I spend cash on these days is morning coffee.

September Weekend

September 10th, 2011 at 04:59 am

I just like the sound of that: September Weekend. What wonderful weather we've had. The garden is still spitting out cucumbers, yellow squash, and tomatoes; I love Septembers like this.

After dinner we went out for ice cream and met lots of our neighbors there. What great fun for $6!

Only one small financial wrinkle; a colleague just e-mailed me about not yet receiving her contract from the university, and I realized mine hadn't come yet either. I'm just anticipating our stupid payroll system screwing things up yet again. Will check on it Monday.

Lovely weekends to you all!

Better End to the Day

September 9th, 2011 at 05:38 am

After a very rocky start to the day, things got better. I find that calmness and order in our home always makes me feel better, and DD and I sat and did homework together tonight, I cleaned the kitchen, tidied a lot, DH got the new router up and running, and things seem much calmer.

I'm scanning in a textbook chapter now, and am working out a new semester work schedule for myself tomorrow morning. I actually watched part of the football game tonight after watching the president's speech.

On the financial front, we received a new valuation on our house. The village said it would come three months ago, and here it is! I suspected it might drop with local property values, and it did, though only $5000.

I've updated the mortgage stats and should probably update retirement fund numbers, but that can wait a little bit.

Hit the Wall

September 8th, 2011 at 10:32 pm

Man alive, I hit the wall today. Yesterday's onslaught of students all with various problems, tons of work to do, some odd swollen lymph node, DH tremendously distracted by computer hardware issues, his job anxiety, house looks like a hurricane hit it--eek.

I ran to the university to upload and scan first chapters of my textbooks, since students invariably order them cheaper and shipping is delayed. I'll bet I had 45 students e-mailing me telling me they couldn't do the first assignments because they had no book. That only took about 90 minutes, but on the way home I was listening to NPR--particularly a story about a woman who lost her twin brother on 9/11, and I just started bawling. Her grief was so deep and so affecting.

Then I had a conversation with a good friend who can't meet me for my birthday this year. It's really stupid, but I felt horrible about it. And I woke up at 4:30 this morning unable to sleep, so I'm zombie-ish anyway.

All this led to a huge outburst of emotion and exhaustion. After working for hours, I fell asleep in the living room chair, and feel much better. What the heck? I hope this isn't a foretaste of the semester to come!

Long Day

September 8th, 2011 at 05:09 am

It's been a long day here. I started teaching at 8 this morning, taught three classes,had office hours through until 2:30, stopped for the sale on ground chuck, went home for 90 minutes, then with DD dropped off with DH, went to my evening class until 10.

My expenses today were just gas for the car and coffee--which is my fuel of choice on days like this.

Last night one of our more eccentric neighbors was taken to the hospital via ambulance at 1am. I suspect my whole block is pretty tired today.


Three Down...

September 6th, 2011 at 08:48 pm

Finally! I'm through with class planning for three of my classes, but still have that pesky fourth new class to plan.

I had a haircut this morning, and as usual, worry about my stylist. She has a volatile marriage, no health insurance, and she's pregnant. I over tip her, but she just seems to be one of those folks who is always on the edge of disaster through not much fault of her own.
Her husband's lost another job, and the insurance is gone too. Yikes--if I were her, I couldn't sleep at night.

Our banks seem to be racheting up the competition.
When I made a rebate deposit today,the drive-up teller started in on a sales pitch, and we've been receiving LOTS of checking bonus offers. Today the UPS driver dropped off a travel mug from from ING with their thanks for being a good customer.

I have dozens of things I should do today, but better get that last class planned or there'll be an awkward silence tomorrow morning.

Relaxing Weekend

September 6th, 2011 at 04:03 am

I do so love a three-day weekend with my DD and DH home.
On Saturday we headed out to the American Players Theatre in Spring Green, Wisconsin. The Tempest was DD's inaugural Shakespeare experience, and she quite liked it. It rained through the first act, but it was lovely there anyway. We stayed at a local motel, DD swam in the pool, and we went out to eat. On the way home we stopped at Cave of the Blue Mounds, which was very interesting, then the William Tell Festival in this small Swiss town with a fabulous lunch there. We had a great time.

Today I got caught up on some school work and slept late. What bliss! Tomorrow the full blast of the semester begins, but today, while the blossom still clings to the vine.....

Back-to-School Planning

September 2nd, 2011 at 10:54 pm

I've spent all day getting my first couple of weeks of classes squared away. I'm about halfway done, and it occurs to me that the website prep takes at least as much time as the pre-electronic versions of most of my materials. But I guess it's cheaper and more environmentally sound not to make all those copies.

The university bookstore has neglected to order books for one of my classes, although they received my order last April. Besides being very expensive, the manager is very smarmy, and I always send my students elsewhere to buy or rent their books. This will cause some confusion in the first week, but I see that Amazon is offering free shipping on texts.

Another no-spend day since I spent it at home in shorts in front of the PC.

Happy Labor Day Weekend (yes, Rick Perry, there is such a thing as the Labor movement and Labor Day)!

Meetings and more meetings

September 2nd, 2011 at 01:48 am

While it's still days until the university begins, the meeting cycle is in full swing. It was nice to catch up with some colleagues and between meetings, I walked right into the freshman picnic. My entire department staff was there eating free hot dogs and chips, so I joined them, bringing the soda and cookies home.

I got to be the "bus parent" this afternoon and rode the school bus home with DD all along her route. It was very sweet to see all the kidlets rushing off the bus to waiting parents. It almost made me tear up.

So it's busy season again here. I hope I can keep the lid on my sanity and budget both.

Did I spend anything today? Nope, not a dime!

First Day of School!

September 1st, 2011 at 04:12 pm

Last night was my first class of the semester--my looooong evening class on Women's Lit. I think it went well. When I got home DD was still up, though lights went out in her room an hour earlier. She was very excited and nervous about today's school start.

This morning went well, although the bus was a bit late.
Our craft project decorating her backpack fell apart, so I envision another trip to the craft store for better glue.

I have a series of meetings and then a trip to the bakery since I assure DD that today would be "a piece of cake" and then promised her some when she got home!

Why I Hate Craft Stores

August 30th, 2011 at 07:32 pm

First let me say, I'm not a big crafter. I can do simple things, but am useless as anything complicated. But I really hate the craft store because my DD LOVES it. She wants everything there. We never get out of there cheaply, although we always have the best intentions. Plus they have all those odds and ends of things imported from China that add up to $$$$ more.

Yet DD is happily decorating her new backpack with pins, stickers,and other blingy stuff purchased there.

DD also has had her back-to-school haircut, exchanged some shoes, and is now ready for the "Meet and Greet" this afternoon. I'm ready for a nap!

Jumped on the Chase Badwagon

August 27th, 2011 at 11:02 pm

All the great reviews of the Chase card have finally got to us. We've just applied for one for DH with instant approval. He's such a skeptic, but we went to all the sites evaluating it, and we're now in this with the rest of you! The no-foreign transaction fee also got to us; Citibank has been nailing us with those fees, and I'm fed up with it.

I Feel In"shred"ible!

August 27th, 2011 at 08:23 pm

I buckled down last night and went through my four-drawer file cabinet and some binders to fill five (5!) paper garbage bags with stuff for the shredder. Ir took hours, but I managed to watch two episodes of "House of Cards" and two episodes of "Mad Men" on Netflix while sorting, so it was more fun than onerous.

In the pitching pile: 1995 tax returns, my ex-husband's brokerage statements, brokerage statements from my investment club in the 1990s, my DH's paycheck stubs since 2001. Tons of stuff! Can you tell how excited I am?

The credit union near us had a free shredding day today--and it was jammed. What fun! I got me thinking that all my notes from my dissertation can probably go too. I've freed up two entire drawers in my office.

Just in Time

August 26th, 2011 at 03:33 am

Our August budget is always a little tight; I don't get paid again at the university until October and I haven't taught my evening class since the end of June, so my only income has been evaluating senior theses. We also have DH's life insurance due, and our UK trip spending is about due now. With a big sigh, I was ready to transfer money from savings, but today my brother sent a check from my mom's estate. It wasn't a lot of money, and it only includes some misc cash sloshing around in her accounts and the deposit on her assisted living unit, but my half was plenty to give us some breathing room.

It's lightened some of my fretting. Both DH and I had very trying days with bad traffic, stupid meetings, and other annoyances. I bought some deli salads to go with burgers for the grill, and the day ended so much better.

There was a beautiful hawk perched on my patio table this afternoon. I hope he didn't get the neighborhood bunnies, but he was majestic.

Odds and Ends

August 25th, 2011 at 05:05 pm

We've got a few things on our list today--buy a gift card for my brother's birthday, donate some items to the Salvation Army, go to the library, purge some files--nothing very exciting, but I also have a load of cards to send, rebates to get in the mail, all that sort of boring stuff.

I'm still suffering from end-of-summer-laziness and lack of motivation, but perhaps crossing some things off the list will help jump-start me. DD starts back to school in a week, so we need to get done what needs to get done!

Secret Frugalitarians

August 24th, 2011 at 06:24 pm

Many of my university friends are both spenders and pinched financially. They have great taste and no money, but have a hard time with anything that smacks of domestic economy measures. I can't find a financial soul mate anywhere there. Lovely women, lots of fun, plenty of smarts, but in denial mode or depressive mode about financial control.

Yet where I teach my evening class, the center coordinator has four kids, makes not very much, and made a comment in passing about not buying the 12 boxes of Kleenex her kids' schools wanted for their classroom until she had a coupon and they were on sale. I knew I'd found a closet frugalitarian! Last night I sent her a link to a local coupon match site, and she was pleased as could be, sending me a couple of new links too.

So--that's my question to all of you out there. Do your friends and colleagues share your taste for economizing like you? Do they make fun of you? Do they make fun of you but eagerly accept your half-off coupons when you have lunch together? Do you have a budget buddy besides all of us?

I'm bored with summer

August 24th, 2011 at 04:05 am

Yeah, go ahead and yell at me, but by mid-August, I'm ready to get some things up and running for the school year. I'm not good being home all the time, and while I adore my daughter, I need more conversation than a 9-year-old and a tired DH can provide. I always get antsy this time of the year; tonight I had to run out to do some errands that didn't really need that much urgency, but I wanted to be alone for a bit.

DD and I did other back-to-school errands today. We bought her shoes, bought the dog some food and treats, and checked out her class list for school. We finished reading Roald Dahl's _The Big Friendly Giant_ which we loved, and tomorrow's hits include the library and a big farmers' market.

I have two more capstone projects to read in the morning, and I've sold a book, so will add the book to my annual sales total. No more boring news to report from Ennuiville.

More Back-to-School Shopping

August 22nd, 2011 at 07:25 pm

Just about done with DD's back-to-school needs. I think we need new gymn shoes and a package of fine-tip markers and I can call it a day. Stopped into the Lands End store on the way home because she wanted a particular backpack--and they have free shipping when you order in the store, but I negated all those savings by buying 4 (eek!) pairs of pants--but they were on sale for $9.50/pr. I think I'd better stay in and away from the shops for a bit!

We also got her eyes tested, and am glad to say she doesn't need glasses. A little grocery shopping rounded it all out. Now I need a cup of coffee and some lunch to face the bags all over the kitchen.

A couple things off the summer list

August 22nd, 2011 at 04:24 am

We ended the day with a lovely glass of wine on the patio after seeing the tall ships in Port Washington, Wisconsin today. The entrance price was a bit hefty at $8 each, but DH loves maritime history, and it was a beautiful day. The ships were spectacular, and we had interesting talks with several of their crew.

I slept in this morning and missed the return of our church's music director from his sabbatical. I've been very tired all summer, and need to get back into exercise and a regular routine before school starts. Tomorrow!

Tonight's dinner was a delicious meal of party leftovers from our friends' party for their daughter's birthday. We have several containers of various taco fillings for days.

It's been a lazy day, but I need to spend the next hour or so reading a capstone project. And then a couple chapters in my new book.

Thinking about CB in the hospital and sending her strength and energy.


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